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The College Process Is the Mirror We Didn’t Know We Signed Up For

By Dot Kowal | October 11, 2025

It happens slowly: one day you’re tying their shoes, the next you’re refreshing the Common App at midnight. This piece explores how the college process becomes a mirror—revealing our fear, control, and love—and invites us into a steadier kind of support rooted in mindfulness, trust, and letting go.

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